This article is just a brief summary of all the failure talks that people are engaged in, all the time. I have come to know all of this because I have been deliberately noticing this for the past whole year. This article will tell you what shit is going around in all of our surroundings and we are too busy to notice it. Not only do these make our conversations faulty but they also ruin our mindset. To know what these actually are, read the full article.
What are these failure talks? How would you know whether you are in the middle of a failure talk or not? Okay, to give the answers of all the questions going in your head, I would need to tell you what kind of conversations are people indulged in, that make them Failure talks.
People talk about people
Yes, the main cause of all evil, the main reason why 90% of the people are so willing to talk to each other is that they talk about other people. People are more interested to know what the fuck is going on in someone else’s life and are least concerned about theirs. People talk about what the awesome clothes someone was wearing on someone else’s party. ( Like man, had you been not knowing this, would it have really affected your life in any way?) People talk shit about their mentors, bosses, family and what not. Sometimes, knowingly or unknowingly we also become part of these conversations and get some freaking shit in our minds.
In the short term, all this mess does not affect us much. But what about long term? One thing you should get straight in your mind is that your mind functions the way you tell it to. If you talk about people, your mind is going to become dumb very soon, and if you talk about ideas, you really can not imagine what wonders your mind can show you. Take example of any of the successful people you have seen or read about in your life, those people do not give a fuck about what other people are up to in their life, but they surely give a fuck about the ideas they have in their minds.
People talk too much
Here’s some problem in basic nature of most of the people. It’s not actually a problem if they talk about only necessary things, the problem arises when people go on to talk about all the things they ever had in their head. People unknowingly go on to talk about so many things they should have never told anyone, and regret later. I am not saying that you should become an introvert but don’t be too much loquacious. Sometimes, many of our personal life secrets are also disclosed to people, and these people may use this thing to their advantage in future. So, don’t tell your strengths and weaknesses to anyone in your life, ever. The thing is you don’t stop when you need to, and that brings problems with itself.
MY ADVICE: Don’t talk unnecessary to anyone or you might face consequences.
People talk about Winners
Yes, that’s true and you know what else is true? That Winners focus on winning whereas losers focus on winners. I know you might have already heard this thing. But, have you ever thought that this statement applies to much more things than race track? Yes, all the people around you are talking about those people who have achieved something extra ordinary in their lives, like “See, that person stood 1st in class.”, “See, that person formed his own company, and is a successful entrepreneur.” See this, see that, and all these talks are about winners. No one talks about the hurdles, that person went through to get at that position, there are no talks about hustle, there is no talk about the late nights and early mornings that the person went through to stand at the position you are admiring right now. And these talks about only winners are what I call as Failure talks. Because you are talking about the winner and not winning.
People now-a-days talk, that they might fail whereas the other person would win. Now, stop for a second and think where is the difference because of which you might fail and the other person might win. The difference comes from these failure talks, the whole time you were gossiping that the other person might win, the other person was focusing on how to win.
People talk about Rich
Yes, and at some point of time, you might have also done that. What am I talking about? I am talking about those talks in which you and your friends admire things that some rich kid is owning at that time. Your friends might be saying that the person is so rich that’s why he can afford anything he desires but you cannot. Okay, here’s my answer you might have born middle class, that’s not your fault. But if you die middle class, that is your fault. You are not hustling that much to get to that stage where expensive becomes cheap. What you are doing is talking about someone who has all of it. You are doing failure talks.
MY ADVICE: STOP TALKING ABOUT RICH AND START DOING WHAT IT TAKES TO BECOME RICH.
Lack of Motivational talks
I know this seems boring and you are the one who is least interested in such things. But believe me, interest comes from taking interest. The day you start talking about any sort of motivation, will be the day you will be keeping the foundation stone of your building of success. I, personally, am in love with anything and everything that is related to motivation. But many times when I try to impart such knowledge to some people, they are just like “Ya, Ya I know, don’t tell me.” People are just motivation averse. They find such failure talks interesting and motivational talks as boring. Well, If you are one of them, there is no problem at all but when some one else achieves something you admire the most, don’t be like- “How did he do that” Yeah, he did that because he does not do failure talks, he does motivational talks. Read some self-help books, some inspirational auto-biographies, follow some motivational pages on Instagram and Facebook like the one I run. You can follow it by clicking the below given button. I know that’s not all, because hard work is the main step. But getting motivated about hard work is the first step. So, start the first step right now.
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